Timeless Tips for a Bedroom Refresh Without Renovating

Last summer, I finally faced it… our primary bedroom needed some love. Since moving in back in 2018, we really hadn’t touched the space aside from adding our custom bed. Everything else? Thrifted, mismatched, and basically just thrown together to make it work. It wasn’t awful, but it definitely wasn’t polished or pulled together. For a space we use daily, it always felt like an afterthought. So I set aside time for a small refresh, no big reno, just simple updates that made a big impact. Keep reading for the design progression, some of my favorite timeless tips, and of course, to see how it turned out.

Curved gray nightstand with fresh lilies, a mirror, and sconce beside a leather headboard and linen drapery in a neutral bedroom.

I’ve had a full renovation in the back of my mind for years. When we get to it, I’d love to do everything properly; millwork, new paint, a closet update, the bathroom, even rebuilding the bedroom balcony. It turns out, that large scale renovation may come more quickly than expected, as we’re gearing up to renovate the primary bath later this year. Anyway… I didn’t want to wait any longer to enjoy our bedroom. So I challenged myself: how could I bring this space up to par with the rest of our home without doing a big renovation?

That’s what sparked this refresh. My goal was to make smart, intentional updates that could carry through to a future renovation- like swapping the ceiling fan, installing linen drapery panels in place of plantation shutters, and replacing the carpet. I didn’t want to waste money or energy on temporary fixes. Everything I brought into the space needed to be classic, high quality, and useful long-term.

Before photo of a neutral bedroom with plantation shutters, a dark ceiling fan, a leather bed, and gray carpet.

Want to see the updates? It’s kind of amazing what a few small and intentional changes can do to totally shift the aesthetic of a room…

My Approach to the Bedroom Refresh

I started by identifying what wasn’t working. The mismatched nightstands were too small and didn’t provide any useful storage. The lighting was inconsistent and not suited for reading or relaxing in bed. We had bare walls and nowhere to sit. The space lacked personality, and worst of all- it looked unfinished.

After photo of a refreshed bedroom with a leather bed, crisp white bedding, a neutral area rug, a gray demilune nightstand, and a white ceiling fan.

Instead of starting over, I focused on layering in thoughtful, timeless elements. I chose things we could keep when we eventually renovate, things that felt like us, and pieces that made the room more inviting and functional.

Close-up of a gray demilune cabinet topped with stacked books, a white fluted bowl, fresh white lilies in a ceramic vase, and a framed mirror.

Favorite Upgrades and Furniture Swaps

The first and most noticeable upgrade? The nightstands (you know I love a demilune!) . I replaced our old mismatched pair with two beautiful demilune tables from Ballard. I love their curved shape and classic lines. They have more storage than I honestly need, and they fill the space so much better.

I paired them with adjustable wall sconces. These have quickly become my favorite feature in the room. They’re functional, beautiful, and they add a soft layered glow in the evening.

Nightstand vignette with a demilune cabinet, framed photo, ceramic vase with green florals, mirror, and wall-mounted sconce beside a leather headboard and crisp white bedding.

I kept my nightstand pretty simple and practical, but I did pull out a photo of Emmett and me… which I almost never do. Long story short, our wedding photographer completely ghosted us, so the only photos we have from that day were snapped on our parents’ old flip phones (yep, really). I figured if I’m ever going to display one, our bedroom is the best spot. I finally put those beautiful Italian frames I’ve been hoarding to good use.

Close-up of a nightstand with a lit taper candle in a faceted glass holder, a framed black-and-white wedding photo, and a ceramic vase of green and white flowers.

These demilune bedside tables offer way more closed storage than I actually need, which is a nice problem to have. I added a couple of baskets inside to help keep things organized- books, chargers, headphones, and my Bluetooth speaker all have a home now. I also keep a wireless charger on top for easy access. Want to know a little trick I use?

Styled nightstand with a fluted mirror, brass sconce, framed photo, ceramic vase of green flowers, and stacked design books on a curved gray cabinet.

I set my wireless phone charger on top of a marble coaster to dress it up a bit. It’s an easy little styling trick that makes it look more elevated, and I can still use the coaster for a glass of water, if needed. I just think it looks nicer! I rest my phone on top every evening for easy charging and call it a night…

wireless phone charger atop a marble coaster

Also on “my side” of the bedroom, I added one of my animal print chairs I restored a few years back. I get ready for the day in our primary suite, and I thought a chair might be helpful for that… plus it’s an extra surface to drop items. This also felt like the perfect vignette to add artwork and install an additional layered light source. How pretty are these dimensional intaglios?

animal print chair and  dimensional intaglio art work

Styling Tips That Make a Big Difference

I didn’t paint. I didn’t install new flooring. But I did layer in new bedding, switch out hardware, and add functional accessories that brought the whole room up a level. I used medium weight bedding to match the season and stuck with my favorite formula for a layered bed: crisp white sheets with a contrast edge, a medium weight quilt, and a timeless matélasse.

Layered White Bedding

I also layered a geometric area rug over our existing wool carpet. That choice was purely aesthetic, but it really anchored the room. Sisal is always a good idea in high-traffic zones. Check out this post for the best natural fiber area rugs.

Even the bench at the foot of our bed got a little refresh. Normally Crosby takes that spot for naps, but when I style it- I like to keep a tray on top.

 geometric area rug and a bench

Across from the bed and the bench, we also have a vintage enamel writing desk that sits beneath our Frame TV.

a vintage enamel writing desk

Every now and then I’ll sit here to journal or flip through a book, but most of the time it just works well as a visual anchor under our TV. It’s also a fun spot to style with little personal things, framed photos, candles, or whatever seasonal piece I’m into at the moment.

candle placed in a marble tray alongside wooden matches, stacked on neutral-toned books on a nightstand.

Since sharing this makeover, we’ve since moved this little writing desk to another bedroom and styled bedroom storage from Kathy Kuo Home here instead. We decided having a dresser on this wall would probably be more functional.

vintage writing desk  with books and lamp with a chair

For us, these little updates made the room feel completely different, and I didn’t even pick up a paintbrush. Home takes time, and I think it’s a good thing when spaces evolve alongside us. It also feels really satisfying to make thoughtful changes you know will last. Photos probably don’t capture it all, but walking into this room now is just a better experience. It’s more welcoming, more personal, and it finally makes me smile. I’m so glad we gave it a little attention.

Timeless Tips for a Bedroom Refresh- Without Renovating

Easy Tips to Refresh Your Own Bedroom

If you’re looking to give your bedroom a fresh start, here are some simple changes that make a big impact:

  • Replace your textiles. Think about rugs, curtains, and bedding. Linen drapes alone made a huge difference in our space.
  • Swap light fixtures. Add bedside sconces, switch a lamp, or update an overhead fixture.
  • Invest in cohesive furniture. You don’t need a full matching set, but symmetry around the bed always looks more pulled together.
  • Style your bed like a designer. I always layer bedding and pay attention to pillows, color, and texture.
  • Add personal touches. Art, mirrors, and framed photos bring life to a room.
  • Think about function. Do you need a reading chair? A desk? A bench? More storage? Add what you’ll use.
  • Style your nightstand with purpose. Keep it tidy and beautiful with only the essentials.
  • Make your bed every morning. That one task sets the tone for the whole day and keeps the space feeling peaceful.
Detail shot of a ruffled marble bowl stacked on neutral books next to a brown vase of white lilies and a glass candle, styled on a gray demilune cabinet.

From a Designer’s Notebook

With a new summer season just around the corner, this is the perfect time to refresh a space in your home that’s been sitting on your list or even a spot you haven’t really paid much attention to yet. It doesn’t need to be a big renovation.

Sometimes all it takes is swapping out a couple of things or rearranging what you already have. I’m all for a seasonal reset! It’s such a simple way to lift your mood and bring fresh energy into your home.

I also want to make sure you have all the sources for this space since I’ve gotten a few requests for links. Keep scrolling for everything I used in our primary bedroom makeover, and feel free to reach out if there’s something you’re wondering about, I’m happy to share!

Timeless Tips for a Bedroom Refresh Without Renovating

Shop my finds by clicking directly on each item below… they’re all are clickable!

I thought you may also like to see the bedroom later in the day with the sconces switched on… it certainly takes on a charming and alluring glow.

sconces switched on in the bedroom

My Most Asked Questions

How do you keep your white bedding clean with pets?

I wash our bedding often and spot treat as needed. I also keep a coverlet or matelassé folded at the foot of the bed to help protect it.

Why did you place the sconce in front of a switch?

We don’t use that switch. Our lights are controlled through our smart home system, so voice control makes it easy. We chose the best placement for reading and function. When we do the full renovation, we’ll move the electrical.

What kind of mattress do you have?

We have a Sleep Number and will never go back. It has been four years of good sleep and I credit that to our mattress. For anyone curious, my number is 35 and Emmett sleeps at 75.

How big are the demilune nightstands?

The demilune bedside table measures 32″ high x 38″ wide x 12″ deep- and they have an adjustable shelf inside. They’re a really great scale!

Why a ceiling fan instead of a pretty light fixture?

Given this is our bedroom and sleep is very important to us, I had to choose function over form on this one. We sleep with our ceiling fan running and that is also the main light source on our ceiling. If you’re going to install a ceiling fan, I do recommend white so it easily blends with the ceiling. Check out this post for my favorites… the best designer approved ceiling fans & how to choose one.

Looking for more bedroom design-related posts? I’ve linked a few of my favorites below that can help you navigate your current or future bedroom renovation with confidence.

Evening Bedroom with Sconce Lights

I hope you enjoyed this one! Let me know if you have any questions, I’m always happy to chat design. And of course, I’d love to hear what you think. I’m very much looking forward to a full-scale renovation in this room later this year, if all goes as planned. We’ll see how things unfold, but it’s fun to look back at the progression!

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16 Comments

  1. Good morning! My gosh I’ve missed you so much! And what a lovely refresh to hold us over until your full blog return. Of course, everything is beautiful, but those demilune tables are divine! The scale, the shape, the hardware…the color! Tbh, gray probably would not usually be my first choice, but the shade is so soft and subtle. I’ll definitely always choose lots of closed storage when it’s an option. My second favorite upgrade is the sconces! I adore the size, adjustability and the finish. The Ballard site indicates antique brass, but they have almost a champagne look in your images. I love the little pointy cone & bobèche moment, similar to your Abington sconce. (Speaking of which, I just did a little tour of your Tuesday Made sconces. You’ve got so many I hadn’t seen yet! All the heart eyes!) Since I’m in the area, I might as well include my adoration for mirrors above a nightstand. The way it strengthens the symmetry really makes my linear-loving heart so happy! Naturally, your styling is impeccable! No matter how much I study your images (cough*a lot*), I just can’t match your genius. Sigh. I do echo all of your sentiments though. I absolutely agree that modest, thoughtful changes can make a huge difference in a space. My own bedroom refresh gave us a whole new appreciation for our little sanctuary. I’m also feeling an impending fall shift overall. We’ve certainly got a month of summer left, but I’m contemplating my autumn changes. It’s been over a hundred for far too long around here, so fingers crossed the rain falling right now brings a little relief. Your florals have me inspired to bring in some summer cheer though and enjoy this current moment. Thank you for sharing this wonderful update, helpful hints and incredible sources (all of the Ballard items are on super sale!). Many thanks for all of your hard work to keep this special place going! Enjoy the rest of summer! We’ll see you in a few weeks! XOXO💜

  2. So lovely, Sarah! All the details are just perfection. I’ve been so excited to see this refresh and you never disappoint!

  3. My heart jumped for joy when I saw that you’d have a special blog post for us- oh how I’ve missed you and the morning routine!! This little refresh turned out beautifully (as always!). The addition of the mirrors behind the bedside tables was pure genius- the light reflects throughout the room now, and has brightened the entire space- your paint color actually looks different, and I love it. The symmetry beside the bed is an entire moment for me- even the styling is symmetrical, while being different and fitting for each person’s uses. The florals bring such life, and I love the cohesive style- this is my reminder to buy faux florals from the shop when we get around to our own primary- live plants are killing me. Lol. The bedside tables themselves are stupendous! I adore the demilune shape, the hardware, closed storage and scale. Having a spare chair in the bedroom is a must for me, and your placement of the vintage chair, with the art moment above, is spot on. Perfect refresh Sarah! I may be on the hunt for new bedside tables myself- when the storm and winds hit yesterday we forgot our bedroom windows were open, and both of our nightstands took a beating- Jeff’s more so than mine. The oak is now bubbled in spots. 🫠 The books on my side took a beating as well, and I have a feeling today will be filled with trying to salvage whatever I can. Either way, I’m referring back to this post as I restyle and reset. This room turned out restful and light- just what a primary should be! I hope you have an amazing visit with your parents, and soak up this last bit of summer. Xoxo

  4. Good morning Sarah! Happy to see your post this morning. Your bedroom refresh is beautiful, inviting and cozy! I love your choices for nightstands and sconces. Your styling abilities are always amazing. You even made the charger look beautiful!
    Have a wonderful Monday!

  5. Yay! So happy to see a post from you this morning, Sarah. Looking forward to the website being fully back up and running! Thank you for the care and attention you put into each post! It’s always a joy to read and a treat for the eyeballs. 😊

  6. WOW what a transformation! Love how bright and airy the new room feels.

  7. wenda scott says:

    so happy to see a post. I’ve missed them. as always, your room detailing is incredible. i cannot wait to see your entry.
    hope you are well. best regards, w. scott

  8. Glad to see you back! This is gorgeous! And many good tips.

  9. Sorry I’m a day late, catching up this morning! The bedroom looks gorgeous, love the demilunes from Ballard 😍 I so love symmetry in a bedroom, just stunning Sarah! Of course it’s styled to perfection and feels so airy and bright. You definitely nailed the summer vibe while keeping it classic and elegant. The sconces are so pretty too! Love everything. Hope you are having an amazing summer and enjoy your parents visit 🥂 They are going to be so amazed at all the beautiful changes and progress on the house ❤️ More importantly, so excited to see you 🥳 Have fun, enjoy the rest of your summer and thanks for this incredible bedroom inspiration, cheers xoxo

  10. Soooooo beautiful! Thanks for sharing and enjoy your new space!

  11. I looked at the wedding photo before reading the text and thought how lovely it was in such a natural unposed way. It’s very beautiful. The refresh did a lot for the finished feel of your room and I even thought you’d painted. The little chair and art work above it is my favorite moment.

  12. Hello! Can you share what curtain rod you used for the curtains over your french doors? We have a similar situation in our bedroom (but with a slider) and I’d love to upgrade our current window coverings to something more like yours!

  13. Dear god that drape rod is hideous. I really can’t believe you put it up. WHAT were you thinking???

    1. Sarah Gibson says:

      I’m guessing you didn’t read the part about this room being an unfinished work in progress? Regardless of the fact this drapery track will someday be covered with moulding, I’m appalled you think it’s appropriate to speak to another person in this manner. I’m all for constructive criticism, design questions, or brainstorming in a productive way, but being rude is uncalled for. Help yourself to someone else’s free content if that’s how you choose to engage. Kindness is my policy on this website.

  14. What is your wall/trim color? Beautiful bedroom! I’m inspired!

    1. Sarah Gibson says:

      Thank you, Georgene! It was actually this color when we moved in… but I color matched it to Revere Pewter by Benjamin Moore.